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Pls mummies and doctors in the house, abeg help me ooo! My baby is not even up to 3wks yet and hubby as started running after my skinny body that's a

Itunnu · Answer

Alice Ben pls don't take things for granted, 7 months is too much o not even 1 year, don't let hubby go elsewhere you guys can use protection

Adunni Ade · Answer

Thanks everyone for ur advice. Love u all

Alice Ben · Answer

I'm seven months plus still haven't done anything cs too. Though we can play Sha my hubby says till 1yr b4 we can start. Though I caused it I wasn't always in the mode each he wants it

Tofunmi · Answer

All dz men sha. Also did CS about 5weeks ago, hubby has been disturbing me. Am scared of my incision site. Though am fit. I don't want to be pregnant o.

mummy Cherish · Answer

@Oyinkansola25578, they will test u to know the one that's good for you, the one that good for me may not be good for you.

Lilian Awele Isichei · Answer

If u are in pain recover first especially in ur mind.madam from 4 to 5weeks I begin hammer but not wt styles Dat will pose pain on d cs area. Talk with him n pray I knw he luvs u n wud understand pls talk wt luv

Adunni Ade · Answer

Thanks everyone, I think I will follow @Agnes advice I will keep pretending am having pains. At least make 6wks pass b4 we start firing @shirley, but come to think of this family planning stuff which one is the best? The coil or injection?

mummy Cherish · Answer

I resumed my own exactly 4 weeks, I went to general hospital to ask a doc when I can start, he told me to fire on, but it has to be with condom then when I completed 6weeks I went for family planning, allow him do it o.

Ella Kings · Answer

@Agnes 6months is too much o, pls beg him to allow you reach six weeks, i did cs too and i started having sex @3months

Agnes · Answer

My case was diff then. so many challenges came up. Couldn't poo n each time have to go for enema, n as a result of not be able to poo was told not to eat which affect my state if recovery, high BP, was pale but I was able to manage it without blood transfusion. So my hubby was scared of having me so as to prevent preg/stress n with d fact that my mum was with me he couldn't think of having me. Always complain bitterly abt d pains u r passing thru to put more fare in his mind.

Adunni Ade · Answer

@Nafisah, I kuku help him like that early this week, but u know guys take things for granted and want to go more far than that.

Adunni Ade · Answer

@Agnes, six months???, am sure my hubby will be far gone by then.

Nafisah Idris Abubakar · Answer

My dear help him out now, you guys don't need to have sex, you can do foreplay na... Just help him release..

Umoh Etentuk Boro · Answer

@feyi1, lawd, y six months Na?

Agnes · Answer

Let him mastubate if he so want it, cos he can use it as excuse n go out there to have a glimpse of it n before u know it...he will be use to it. I pray for quick recovery for u n is ur mum or mother in-law not with u? If is ur mum that's there let her be sleeping with u in d same room like that he won't think of it till u get well...that was how I handle mine n I resumed sex after 6months.

Adunni Ade · Answer

Thanks mums, have been telling him o, na matter of time. I don't understand men sometimes they act like winchi winchi.

Mmasinachi Uba · Answer

He needs to understand... minimum of 6 weeks pls to avoid stories that touches the heart.

Glorygold · Answer

My sister abeg get well first, even normal delivery takes six weeks to heal. Men cannot be pleased oooo God help us

Ehizogie Juliet · Answer

Lol is well ooo I know how to do it know dey for inside oo if anything happen to your body if you don't heal well first he will still complain ooo abeg get well first and pray about it that God should make him understand

Mary Raymond · Answer

Abeg oooo ur bady recover after six weeks!

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