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Hello house, please i want to know if it's normal for one not to have urge for sex after 8 months of delivery and also why do I experience pains duri

Chinwe O. · Answer

Thanks to you all

Liz · Answer

@Olufunmilola28766, also you guys should engage in foreplay b4 penetration. To keep you moist so the pain can be reduced or eliminated.

Olufunmilola Oladipo Adegoke · Answer

My sis ....often time this occurs after child birth due to several reasons ....but basically psychological effects , the mind now has a new focus ( the new baby) to care for,pamper and watch over ......it takes a conscious and deliberate effort to make your love life active ..as it is very important in your marriage ..note that your husband is your for first baby so he needs your utmost attention (na God I take beg you oooo). Make out time together and bring back the old days sis ! God bless u

Simdi · Answer

Sex is a thing of the mind,just put your mind there you will enjoy it rather than been painful .

Blessing Robson · Answer

It a normal thing after delivery

Juliet jlove · Answer

Lol .. My dear is it u or hubby that has urge for sex. And its normal . I also have same urge and I am just a month after delivery even though I plan to wait till two month . You love ur husband and its normal we are all humans. For the pain .. If u had stitch after delivery then u will have pain. The vagina has forgotten the sex process and you have stayed too long which will make u more tighter. Even if you don't feel like having sex just do it to loosen up and make hubby happy.

Mummy Rex · Answer

Am experiencing same,

Olaogun Olanike · Answer

Urge to av sex is a thing of the mind u may be too busy yo think abt it and wen u are been compelled to av it it becomes painful to u cos ur mind is not there or not too happy

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