Please, How do u stay positive When you're trying to conceive?
Hello everyone! How are you doing today? I'm new here on this forum. Finally, I decided to join because sometimes I feel so lonely in this whole TTC journey. I never thought this will be so hard! I honestly want to know how you stay positive? I have been trying for 3 years. I know many of you TTC much longer, but still... By the way, I’m 40. I read these forums. I know many many of you have been trying much longer, and have taken many further steps than I have. So what do you do to keep yourself positive? I'm frustrated, sad, angry. I’m jealous of others. DH and I argue more frequently. I can say TTC has been one of the more unpleasant experiences in my life. Especially this month. I was nauseous, temps stayed up, and I was late. I am NEVER late! So I had dared to allow myself to hope. Even managed to wait 2 days before I tested. Test showed negative, and AF arrived later that morning.
After you might have done the necessary test,I mean you and your husband, then put all ur trust in God and not on drugs,talk to you body everyday with faith that your body should conceive of babies,I was there for four years before God answer d my prayers and gave me my princess, it was when I said I wasn't taking any drugs again ,after two months God did it.
I can relate. I'll be honest with you. My best friend was there. Sometimes I was not positive at all for her. Sometimes She just wants to stay in bed and cry. Other times she wanted to totally give up. She has been TTC for 10 years! I had 6 miscarriages. I don't know what's worse, not being able to get pregnant, or getting pregnant but not being able to keep it. She's presently in her 38 weeks pregnant today. Best of luck to you. It will happen!