My dear your situation sounds familiar, your seems to be a choleric, he is insecure with your opinions and feels there would be competition if you are working and probabbling making more money than him. My advice 1. Pray and ask God to change him God owns him remember, 2. If you can Stop "sending" him to much start focusing on improving yourself. 3. Don't stop talking to him, each this incidence happens continue to politely tell him how you feel about it he doesn't sound bad he just needs to have confidence in you and with time he will in Jesus name.

God is the only one you can talk to that will give you peace in your marriage

It's well with your marriage. Have you done anything that breached the trust? Have a personal retreat, how was your relationship before marriage, at what point did things change? Take everything to God in prayer and things will get better.