I am here to share some relevant experience on child delivery because I have experienced both the normal way and caesarian section too, meanwhile, I can't really say which one is much better. 

Sincerely speaking, I have witnessed much normal delivery which is so interesting and so easy but not as mine, anyway, I'm blessed with two kids, the first happens to be a normal but hard delivery while the second happens to be through cs, but I thank God we are all alive today.

On my first delivery

I went through labour pain for three days, it was like hell on earth then, I was given so many medications, I was treated herbally and medically but nothing happen, but behold this fateful day, the doctor had to insert some hot drip in my anus of which the baby started looking for a way to come out, after some cut on my vagina, I had to push with the help of three doctors, one helping with the pushing down my stomach while others help with holding my legs cos I had less strength then, it was then I had the baby but behold, I became so lifeless for about three days also because I lose so much blood, so, I was given some blood drips to gain my strength, this is how my first child delivery goes, I'm happy that I and my child survived that day.

My second experience

So, I was pregnant for the second time, which I expect to be less difficult but nay, it wasn't, it was a cs, imagine the pain, but my case was a surprise in that hospital that day, after being transfer to that hospital, the doctor realises that we(I and my baby) are so weak from the test he did on us, he said if we wasted any more time, that they'll lose us.

I can't imagine how frightened my mother-in-law was, she's so scared that she had to give them the go-ahead reply.

He's the only one with me then, so she had to pray to God for mercy, so, they started the operation, but I was so scared, it was said that after being injected with a particular injection, you won't feel anything but to me.

It was a lie, I only don't know anything anymore but I feel the pain, it was like getting punishment on another planet, especially when it's time for stitching

Recovering after Childbirth

I can feel everything the doctor did, so, after few hours but not up to five hours, I regain strength and was on a drip(food substance), the first thing I could ask for after seeing my child is water but I wasn't allowed to drink nor eat but I have to take heed because I might lose my life on trying to disobey.

I was told also not to get up but that I can't do it, I can't lie down for 24hours without sitting or walking, but at least I thank God for a successful operation, I have seen a woman giving birth on the way to the hospital.

I can tell that this lady didn't push at all before the baby came out, I was so surprised, but mine was a different story entirely.

My wish for all mothers

I never wish anyone to pass through my kind of child delivery, I wish every pregnant mother a safe delivery, I'm using this opportunity to urge us to respect our mothers, motherhood is a wonderful and a great creature made by God, let's appreciate them.

#I'm proudly a mother

Would you like to Join the babymigo SuperMom blogger/ Writers Program where you get to share your stories to more than 400,000 mothers and become famous? Click here

Whether your story is about parenthood, Childbirth stories, Mother-in-law Dramas, womanhood, relationships, struggles, joys or personal well-being, this is the platform to write about it. Join the SuperMums in seeking and sharing advice, opinions and recommendations. Submit your story here