Seat him down n let him know how you feel. Secondly, don't forget the place of prayer. Prayer for him, pray for your home and trust God to see the treasure that he has. I must also say, I think you shouldn't hold him too tight. Sometimes, you women hold your men tight such that he doesn't have a breathing space for himself. Fine, he is your man, he belongs to him but there is a way you could hold unto a man and he begins to feel uncomfortable. You know, its like holding an egg too tight, you could just break it and if you hold it too care freely, it could equally fall off your hand. The same applies to men. Some men with deep understanding can manage situation such as yours. BE WISE....